The problem with men being offended by women not automatically trusting them is an issue of entitlement as well as an issue of who gets to define reality and for whom. No one is entitled to another’s trust. This is especially true when the person who is distrustful is a member of a class that is disproportionately affected by harassment, violence and degradation and the person who is not being trusted is a member of the class that most often perpetrates that degradation. In addition, when men claim that feminists have no reason not to trust them, they are erasing lived experiences and realities as well as the fact that in some regard they benefit from the privilege that this systematic degradation perpetuates.