The Curbside Prophet

My name is Alyssa Mae.

I am a mid-twenties avid intersectional feminist, advocate, fighter, counselor, and friend. I will be graduating from Bucknell University in May with degrees in Psychology and Women’s & Gender Studies. I work with survivors of sexual assault and other trauma, and I fix computers for a living.

I often blog about what it is like to live at the intersections of a few different mental illnesses, queerness, and sexuality, along with posts about sexism, racism, rape culture, and LGBT rights. There is a trigger warning for these on my entire blog. You will see posts about depression, eating disorders, PTSD, panic disorder, and fat activism. This has been my safe space for four years now, and I reserve the right to ask you to leave it if necessary.

Welcome to my life.





Recent Tweets @mizzlyssamae

speaksoon-staylucky:

Blog: Another guy who thinks Lara Logan deserved to be raped.

*Trigger Warning*

elyseface:

readjustingexpectations:

Not only does he cite Logan’s dress as reason for her rape, but he cites her dress at a red carpet event, not what she was wearing at the time of her rape.

Earth to liberated women: when you display legs, thighs, or cleavage, some liberated men will see it as a…

I said I wasn’t going to get mad anymore today but fuck me.

His number one piece of advice is “Don’t trust your male friends.”


I mean, seriously? SERIOUSLY?

He goes on to advise, “Don’t go to a man’s home at night unless you’re prepared to have sex with him. Don’t disrobe in front of a male masseur. If you take a job as a masseuse, don’t be shocked if your male customers think you’re a prostitute. And if you want to be taken seriously as a journalist, don’t pose for pictures that emphasize your cleavage.”

And his reason? “the human animal— especially the male animal— craves drama as much as food, shelter and clothing. Conquering an unwilling sex partner is about as much drama as a man can find without shooting a gun”

I am stunned. This man isn’t portraying himself as merely a rape apologist, but a sympathizer. Not for rape victims, but for rapists.

He has written an article which states that he understands why men rape, and that women should simply stay out of the way.

Sounds like he’s looking for reasons why it’s okay to do it…which makes me instantly suspicious of him. Women shouldn’t have to do anything to NOT BE RAPED. Men should NOT RAPE. Rape isn’t “conquering women” - it’s a disgusting stripping of human dignity.

This made me sick to my stomach. I can’t form the words to convey just how unhappy I am with this.

(via beholdthehurrikate-deactivated2)

  1. littleclaypot reblogged this from goddessofcheese and added:
    So basically he outed himself as a rapist.
  2. numinousnegrita reblogged this from bluntlyblue
  3. somanypeopleinmysuitcaseheart reblogged this from koalasloverain
  4. hairtrending reblogged this from bluntlyblue
  5. bluntlyblue reblogged this from nom-chompsky and added:
    For every douchebag man who says rape culture doesn’t exist, what the fuck do you call this, asshole? Fuck you all.
  6. e-a-r-t-h-s-h-i-n-e reblogged this from themamafox
  7. avatarofentropy reblogged this from goddessofcheese
  8. koalasloverain reblogged this from steviemcfly and added:
    Punched in the face REPEATEDLY. I cannot even put words to how incredibly sickened and angry this makes me.
  9. forrestbondurant reblogged this from horsesfor-fraublucher
  10. littleichabod reblogged this from nom-chompsky and added:
    what. the. actual. fuck.
  11. goddessofcheese reblogged this from shewalkslikethunder
  12. texnessa reblogged this from whiferdill
  13. maxvinyl reblogged this from steviemcfly and added:
    this shit makes me want to vomit. I get the impression that this guy IS a rapist, which is why he’s apparently so dead...
  14. steviemcfly reblogged this from shewalkslikethunder and added:
    WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK IS THIS FUCKING FUCKERY? IS THIS DUDE FOR GODDAMNED REAL? He also: claims rape is the natural...
  15. shewalkslikethunder reblogged this from someauthorgirl and added:
    I said I wasn’t going to get mad anymore today but fuck me. His number one piece of advice is “Don’t trust your male...
  16. coldasaslab reblogged this from nom-chompsky
  17. lalie reblogged this from curiousgeorgiana and added:
    Gross. When this first happened, I asked my 16-year-old brother if he thought she should be blamed. He looked at me,...
  18. setfiretotears reblogged this from nom-chompsky and added:
    What in all hell is this fuckery?!?!?!
  19. curiousgeorgiana reblogged this from cantankasaurus-rex and added:
    Victim-blaming 101. Sign the petition, please.
  20. themamafox reblogged this from whiferdill
  21. thegoddessfoo reblogged this from cantankasaurus-rex and added:
    Singed and keep it going! This is disgusting.
  22. whiferdill reblogged this from cantankasaurus-rex and added:
    What an asshat. Signed.
  23. rea-djusting-expectations posted this