Upon greeting them, you should not immediately demand that they show you their modifications.
Take today. “Oh hey, professor/friend of family I haven’t seen in a while!” “Oh, hey Alys—-WAIT. Turn around.”
Sure, I’ll be courteous and show you the fact that I’ve dyed my hair purple, but it’s been that way for a year and my body is not something for you to make demands about. Kiss my sass.
Tricia (6 hours ago):
Curious the reaction I’d get if I challenged your “Obama is the answer” mentality. I am a belligerently proud card carrying Republican who can’t wait for that piece of fecal matter to be evicted from that White Shack down the street. Elmer Fudd, Beavis or Butthead…fuck it even Sponge Bob would have stepped in with about the same amount of qualifications!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tricia (30 minutes ago):
yea, pretty much what i thought!
Me (just now)
Hey—just got this.
I don’t think he’s the ~answer~ to everything. He’s done a lot wrong and has screwed up at several major points. However, he’s done a lot of good things, too, and I’d rather have him than any of the other possibles.
I care about my reproductive rights, I care about being able to marry my partner regardless of their sex, I care about comprehensive sex ed and universal healthcare and uncensored internet. These are things that the GOP has proven time and again that they don’t care about, and that’s not something I can be okay with.
I’ve said in jest that if a GOP gets elected, I’m moving to Denmark. I think I might have to. I can’t live in a country where the government continues to push women centuries back in their rights. I can’t live in a country where the government believes that racism doesn’t exist anymore. I can’t live in a country where the government would force me to carry the child of my—not one, not two, but three—rapists to term because it’s a “gift from god.” I can’t live in a country where the government would not allow me to seek efficient medical care quickly.
Cue last night. I went to the ER because I was bleeding profusely. It was my period, but 10 times worse. If the GOP was in charge, my healthcare wouldn’t exist. I wouldn’t have been able to go to the ER and make sure that my IUD hadn’t perforated my uterus and I would probably have bled out. I was fortunate enough only to have to pay $70 out of pocket for that visit, have my girlfriend sit with me and hold my hand and not be denied care, and have a male doctor respectfully poke around down there. I have excellent health care coverage and I will continue to have that because of Obama’s Affordable Care Act. I would not have that under Romney or Santorum.
I recently had to explain to my grandmother what Planned Parenthood does. As far as she knew, it was an abortionplex. Now, she had no idea that when I was out of school for a year and didn’t have health insurance, I went to Planned Parenthood for gynecological checkups, for a mammogram, for consultation about birth control methods. When I had kidney pain and a potential uterine cyst, I went to Planned Parenthood. Had I needed an abortion, I would have gone there too. Since I managed to get comprehensive sex ed and know how to properly use birth control, my risk for pregnancy was significantly lowered and I didn’t have to do that. Planned Parenthood exists because it’s a necessary thing for lower-income people to get the healthcare they need. Under the GOP, comprehensive sex ed wouldn’t exist. Neither would Planned Parenthood or abortion or half decent healthcare. Romney said one of his first orders of business would be to kill PP and outlaw abortion. Me and millions of women like me won’t be able to get that care, and have their lives threatened by medical conditions that could have been caught early. That is why I am 100% against the GOP. For me, they have no bright side, no redeeming qualities, no endearing charm. Obama’s defended PP and women’s rights. He’s fought for me to make the same amount as a colleague who is male with the same qualifications. He’s signed into law a bill that prevents healthcare discrimination on the basis of sex. He’s at least working toward equal rights for LGBT people. Under his healthcare act, women cannot be denied insurance for a history of domestic violence—which is considered a “pre-existing condition” under many policies today.
When it comes down to it, I’m a two-issue voter: who’s going to let me have my healthcare when I need it, and who’s going to let me have equal rights under the law based on my sexual orientation. I am perfectly okay with that.
That’s why your 6 hour ago message just got to me. I went to bed when I got home at 4 am, and woke up around 2. My schedule is erratic. Had I not been to the ER last night and skipped class today, I wouldn’t have seen this until at least 5 pm.
Hey now, hey now. Let’s not get ahead of ourselves.
The second sentence in no way proves the legitimacy of the first. You are committing the informal logical fallacy of being a complete and total (and sexist) dumbass.
Yes. Women should be used (minus the only) for fucking and cooking. But so should men. And non-gender binaries. And genderqueers. And anyone who wants to be used for fucking and cooking.
That in no way means that women are inferior.
I would never even consider submitting to someone who thought this. I pity the woman who drinks your cum. You are unworthy of her service.
This made me angry. Lots of angry.
Not only does he cite Logan’s dress as reason for her rape, but he cites her dress at a red carpet event, not what she was wearing at the time of her rape.
Earth to liberated women: when you display legs, thighs, or cleavage, some liberated men will see it as a…
I said I wasn’t going to get mad anymore today but fuck me.
His number one piece of advice is “Don’t trust your male friends.”
I mean, seriously? SERIOUSLY?
He goes on to advise, “Don’t go to a man’s home at night unless you’re prepared to have sex with him. Don’t disrobe in front of a male masseur. If you take a job as a masseuse, don’t be shocked if your male customers think you’re a prostitute. And if you want to be taken seriously as a journalist, don’t pose for pictures that emphasize your cleavage.”
And his reason? “the human animal— especially the male animal— craves drama as much as food, shelter and clothing. Conquering an unwilling sex partner is about as much drama as a man can find without shooting a gun”
I am stunned. This man isn’t portraying himself as merely a rape apologist, but a sympathizer. Not for rape victims, but for rapists.
He has written an article which states that he understands why men rape, and that women should simply stay out of the way.
Sounds like he’s looking for reasons why it’s okay to do it…which makes me instantly suspicious of him. Women shouldn’t have to do anything to NOT BE RAPED. Men should NOT RAPE. Rape isn’t “conquering women” - it’s a disgusting stripping of human dignity.
This made me sick to my stomach. I can’t form the words to convey just how unhappy I am with this.